Below are ways you can make your kids love you

Below are ways you can make your kids love you

Kids are the cutest beings in this world. They bring joy and laughter into our lives. This, however, doesn’t mean they don’t make us angry. At times kids just want to play alone and not with strangers or people they know. If you love kids and want kids to...
Working Through Guilt and Shame: Responsibility, Repair and Care

Working Through Guilt and Shame: Responsibility, Repair and Care

Guilt and shame can become tangled when you are trying to care for a family, meet expectations or make sense of something you regret. “I wish I had handled that differently” can quickly become “I am a bad parent” or “I let everyone down.” You can take an action...
Being a Strong Single Parent

Being a Strong Single Parent

Being a strong single parent can mean making one workable plan, asking for help or changing an expectation that has become too heavy. You do not have to handle every task alone or feel confident every day to care well for your children. Rather than trying to organise...
Anxieties that affect children

Anxieties that affect children

Childhood is an anxious process on its own. Children have a lot of challenges they go through that doesn’t always make sense. However, sometimes, they are overwhelmed with these challenges and normal comforts that adults usually provide don’t seem to be...
Emotions Ruling Your Life

Emotions Ruling Your Life

Emotions are something that is a part of every moment of our lives.  Many people are not willing to deal with them.  People do not welcome their emotions and instead, they allow themselves to feel whatever they are feeling instead of trying to get over it.  They will...
Anger, Rage and Outbursts: When to Seek Support

Anger, Rage and Outbursts: When to Seek Support

Anger is an emotion; shouting, threatening, breaking things or hurting someone are behaviours. Feeling angry does not automatically mean that you will become aggressive, and calling an outburst “rage” does not explain its cause. If anger feels overwhelming, is...
How to Give to your Kids Without Spoiling Them

How to Give to your Kids Without Spoiling Them

Spoiled entitlement has to be among the most universally despised human qualities. Despite this, many parents would agree that one of the greatest goals in their life is to make sure that their children have more than they had. How can these two opposing facts be...
How to take your husband back from another woman

How to take your husband back from another woman

I help women win their husbands back. It’s possible to win him back from another woman and enjoy his attention again. It’s very complicated but I do it every day. How to make your husband come back to you: Love must be tough A lot of toughness is needed...
“I Do Not Like Being a Mother”

“I Do Not Like Being a Mother”

My client Didi told me this the previous day. After saying, “I do not like being a mother,” she then said, “I feel really guilty since I never did.” Some asked me how it feels to be a mum. That’s when my son was a year-old. I wanted to...
Don’t be your kid’s best friend, be their best parent

Don’t be your kid’s best friend, be their best parent

A parent should be there to teach and guide the kid. They have a responsibility to make good decisions, keep the family safe, model good habits and be consistent in a child’s life so that the child can feel safe and protected even when faced with all the life...